The hardest part about trying to control - or more accurately to smooth out - your anger and your temper is trying to decide when something actually DOES require an angry response. We can't simply stop being angry at everything, for one thing, bad things really DO exist in the world. And we can't just ignore them - sometimes something needs to be done about them. And - usually simply caring feeling words can't quite cover that. If someone cuts off your love's head and stuffs it in a dumpster, kind words and "He was just misunderstood" don't cut it. Personally, I'd wanta scratch his (or her) eyes out.
So, how do we decide?
What's worthy of a response. And when is the best response .. nothing?
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